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Thursday, November 13, 2025

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A long farm lane on Rock Point Road.

"An Anger TPR"

Message summary: Let God’s Word saturate your life today: “My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires”.  

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“Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming” (Proverbs 27:4). “A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control” (Proverbs 29:11). “Man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires” (James 1:20). “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold” (Ephesians 4:26,27).

I sure appreciate illustrations from the regular stuff of life which is how Jesus essentially illustrated when he spoke in parables. Yesterday's message was a lesson based on the GFI, an electrical device most of us have in our homes as we all should. It's designed to protect us from electrical shocks.

TPR valveToday we are going to consider a spiritual lesson from another common home safety device, the TPR on your water heater. Now I am sure there are readers who are unaware of this safety device, especially since water heaters are usually placed in a room out of the way such as the corner of the basement or a closet.

TPR stands for “Temperature & Pressure Relief”. It’s a valve virtually all of us have on our hot water heater that is designed to open if the temperature or pressure exceeds a certain point. This is an important safety feature to prevent the hot water heater tank from exploding. I have never had a TPR open up in my home but I am still thankful for this safety feature.

Let us consider when we deal with anger and having a spiritual TPR. That is, when we get hot with anger and our pressure builds up, how do we find relief? Do we explode or do we have a means of safely dissipating that anger?

Anger is an ancient human condition first seen in Cain prior to the first murder.  When his offering was not accepted "he was very angry, and his face fell" He exploded in anger and killed his own brother. He sure didn't have a TPR.

Throughout the Bible we see evidences of unrestrained anger and certainly it is a human condition all readers are familiar with. It gets a lot of attention in the media – whether it’s road rage, anger in the workplace, school, at home, or wherever one chooses to unleash his or her fury on others.

As a follower of Christ and student of the Bible I believe there’s a significant contributing factor to the increase of unrestrained anger. Through much of our history the teachings and principles of the Bible had a restraining impact upon our culture. This even impacted those who were not specifically followers of Jesus Christ. Most knew about the “Golden Rule”, it’s just plain common sense. There was an unspoken understanding that we are to be kind and respectful to one another and practice self-control even if it was not reciprocated.

But now with this restraint missing we see a pandemic of anger and rage in many forms. But virtually no consideration is given regarding the spiritual reasons for this increase in violence!

Anger in itself is not a sin. The Bible records several occasions when Christ was angry (see Mark 3:5). In fact I believe sometimes it would be unhealthy not to be angry! God included it in our emotional constitution and there are times when it is the appropriate response.

Here's a verse of restraint: “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” Paul is giving practical instructions on life to the Ephesian believers. He acknowledges that there will be times the believer is angry.

In this text the Bible lists three vital restraints on anger. We can see these points as being like a TPR:

1) “In your anger do not sin.” This indicates there are to be self-imposed constraints on the extent of anger. Obviously harming other people in our anger is sin!

2) “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” This indicates there are to be self-imposed constraints on the duration of anger. This prevents the long term, harmful effects of seething anger that easily leads to destructive behavior or a bitter spirit.

3) “And do not give the devil a foothold.” This indicates there are to be self-imposed constraints on the ultimate source of destructive anger. If we allow anger to seethe we are giving the devil a foothold on our emotions which in turn feeds our actions. Instead of a godly response it will produce a knee jerk reaction from the enemy who holds us down.

Let God’s Word saturate your life today: “My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires” (James 1:19,20).


Be encouraged today!  Hebrews 3:13


Stephen & Brooksyne Weber

Praying manDaily prayer: Father, when we are angry You tell us to stay above the fray and sin not. There are times we should get angry such as when we see a person harming another individual; when we have been lied to, when we've been unfairly accused or when we see the rotting decay around us due to the forces of evil. These circumstances along with many others stir up strong emotions within us and often require a response to the matter. Keep us prayerful which will enable us to be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. May we respond as Jesus did to His many accusers, though innocent, He spoke not a word in His defense. And may we be careful not to keep a scoreboard of other’s offenses. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus who forgives us and does not count our sins against us, but rather took them upon Himself.  Amen.


Today's Suggested Music and Supplemental Resources

"Slow To Anger"  Watch on YouTube  Joshua Miller  A song based on Psalm 145:8, “The LORD is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love”.

"Don't Stay Angry for Too Long"  Watch on YouTube  Country Grace

The Fierce Fruit of Self-Control  (article by John Piper)

Here's an observation on the third constraint from Clarke's Commentary:

Neither give place to the devil - Your adversary will strive to influence your mind, and irritate your spirit; watch and pray that he may not get any place in you, or ascendancy over you. As the word διαβολος is sometimes used to signify a calumniator, tale-bearer, whisperer, or backbiter; (1 Timothy 3:11; 2 Timothy 3:3, and Titus 2:3); here it may have the same signification. Do not open your ear to the tale-bearer, to the slanderer, who comes to you with accusations against your brethren, or with surmisings and evil speakings. These are human devils; they may be the means of making you angry, even without any solid pretense; therefore give them no place, that you may not be angry at any time; but if, unhappily, you should be overtaken in this fault, let not the sun go down upon your wrath; go to your brother, against whom you have found your spirit irritated; tell him what you have heard, and what you fear; let your ears be open to receive his own account; carefully listen to his own explanation; and, if possible, let the matter be finally settled, that Satan may not gain advantage over either.



Exploding water heater
This video dramatically demonstrates why you need a TPR valve on your water heater!


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