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Monday, March 4, 2024

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"Why Me Lord?" (Part 1)

Message summary: Today if you are dealing with a situation that prompts a "Why me, Lord?" attitude, slow down and take inventory of your prior, present and future blessings. It should keep you from going down the road that leads to bitterness. Recall Naomi’s story and remember the powerful truth in our second daily text, "See to it that …no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many".

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“Don’t call me Naomi,” she told them. “Call me Mara, because the Almighty has made my life very bitter” (Ruth 1:20). “See to it that …no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many” (Hebrews 12:15).

We all bear burdens, some great and others small, some temporary and others life changing. As a pastor for many years and now a chaplain, situations like this are among the greatest challenges we have when attempting to minister to the family and loved ones. Just this morning we received a text from a general manager concerning an employee rushed to the hospital.

Many of us have had situations in our lives where we have uttered a deeply felt, “Why me Lord?” I’m not speaking of the many trite situations where we are inconvenienced in some manner or when things just aren’t going our way. Really, these situations amount to mere grumbling if we honestly examine our hearts!

We want to draw your attention to a song and link provided after our message today that speaks of God’s faithfulness in the deepest of trials. Brian Doerkson sings a stirring song he wrote after the birth of his son born with special needs. He and his wife have six children, four daughters and two sons. Eventually both sons would be diagnosed with the same severe form of autism making them unable to talk or care for themselves. What a burden that surely is.

In our previous church in New England we had a member whose young daughter was backed over by a service truck in her own driveway and died. That may bring to mind the deep heartache that Steven Curtis Chapman and his family endured when their young daughter died after being struck by a vehicle in their driveway. These are the “Why me Lord?” experiences that test the very limits of our faith in God who is good. I myself have had to deal with a few situations like this in my own life and so have many of you.

The severity of the testing may vary among Christians but the grace of God is all-sufficient to meet every affliction we have. Annie Johnson, a woman orphaned at a very young age and severely crippled by rheumatoid arthritis by the time she was a teen-ager, wrote the following poem set to music: 

“He giveth more grace when the burdens grow greater,
He sendeth more strength when the labors increase;
to added affliction He addeth His mercy,
to multiplied trials, His multiplied peace.”

Simply put, the grace of God always more than matches the depth of our need.

The best step I have found in dealing with these troubling situations, whether in my own life or as counsel to others, is to humbly acknowledge, “I don’t know why,” take my focus off the situation (which could eventually lead to bitterness), and fix my attention on the character of God. He can turn the situation around or He may be shaping my character in ways that can only come about in times of difficulty.

Naomi had great loss. Over time she lost her house, her homeland, her husband and two sons. She expresses her deep hurt and confusion in our daily text with these heart-felt words, “The Almighty has made my life very bitter.”

But the little book of Ruth ends with a contented grandma holding an ancestor to Jesus. I expect that her attitude had changed by then and could be expressed in Romans 8:28: “In all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose”.

Today if you are dealing with a situation that prompts a "Why me, Lord?" attitude slow down and take inventory of your prior, present and future blessings. It should keep you from going down the road that leads to bitterness. Recall Naomi’s story and remember the powerful truth in our second daily text, “See to it that …no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many".


Be encouraged today, Hebrews 3:13


Stephen & Brooksyne Weber

Praying man Daily prayer: Father, when burdens increase and answers don’t come I have a choice to let a bitter root grow up or to remain firmly rooted in You. Focusing solely on my troubles is sure to germinate doubt, fear and unbelief which leads to bitterness. But when I clothe myself in the spiritual armor You provide I have a powerful defense against the enemy; I can stand firm against his evil schemes. Though he plots daily evil You plan my eternal good. We are cautioned repeatedly in Scripture that we will have many troubles, but that we should take heart because You help us to overcome them. Father, though You’ve proven Yourself over and over I ask for grace to trust You even more for those matters that weigh me down, knowing that You are working all things out for my good and for Your glory. Amen.



Today's Suggested Music and Supplemental Resources

"Your Faithfulness"  Watch on YouTube  Brian Doerksen Brian is known for his worshipful songs such as "Come, Now is the Time to Worship" "Refiner's Fire" and many other worshipful songs. He wrote this lesser known song following the birth of his son born with FXS, Fragile X syndrome, also known as Martin–Bell syndrome, or Escalante's syndrome. You'll want to view the brief interview Brian gives regarding his sons, "They slow us down to the pace of love". Video

"He Giveth More Grace"  Watch on YouTube  The Living Stones Quartet

"Goodness of God"  
Watch on YouTube   Ce Ce Winans  We sang this song in our church service yesterday. It's hard to sing it with dry eyes when you sing that line, "All my life You have been faithful, all my life You have been so, so good..." For me (Brooksyne) I don't think I ever sing this song without doing a quick mental rewind of hardships over the years where I didn't think God was going to work it out, but He always did and always will: not always according to my will, but according to His plan. Amazingly, I learned to like His plan or adapted to it in the end and realized He knew what was best all along.

Brooksyne's Note: On Saturday the Women's Ministries of Calvary Church hosted a "Gathering" for teen girls and women. It included three speakers who took us through the book of Philippians. The church provided lunch and plenty of worship time. There were just over 1000 women who attending the Gathering so it was lively, crowded, and joyful! The same ladies who led in worship at Gathering also led in worship on Sunday morning. Watch on YouTube (cued to start of music)

I especially enjoyed the song, "Bless God" as I've been hearing it on the radio and only the day before listened carefully to the words. How wonderful that we would sing it the next day. Be sure to listen and be blessed as you hear and/or sing along with "Bless God" written by Brooke Ligertwood: 

Come on and praise the Lord with me
Sing if you love His name
Come on and lift your voice with me
He's worthy of all our praise




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