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(Click refresh or reload for current message) Tuesday, August
16, 2022
The Country Log House Farm on
Flory Road sitting amongst plenty of summer green.
"A
Consideration of Friendships"
"Jonathan said to
David, “Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with
each other in the name of the Lord, saying, ‘The Lord is
witness between you and me, and between your descendants
and my descendants forever’” (1 Samuel 20:42). “That day
Herod and Pilate became friends–before this they had been
enemies” (Luke 23:12).
Brooksyne and I are blessed with many friends. As we’ve grown older we’ve come to increasingly place great value on long-term, lifelong friendships. Dave is a friend I've mentioned many times over the years as our friendship goes all the way back to first grade and we're still in touch with after over 60 years. Brooksyne also has childhood friends she expects to see when she visits Tulsa next month. Perhaps this message will prompt you to reminisce about longtime friends in your life. Of course we also continue
to develop new friendships along the way and expect that
many of these will also become friends for life such as new
friends we are meeting in our Sunday School class.
Friendships can be based on positive, constructive mutual interests such as the friendship between David and Jonathan. That’s certainly the kind of friendship we value and strive for. In a recent sermon our
pastor shared how we all need both a Jonathan and a Nathan
in our life. Jonathan was an encourager and Nathan brought
needed rebuke following David's sin with Bathsheba. But
truth be told we'd probably prefer more Jonathans than
Nathans in our life, though we need both!
But friendships can also be
based on negative, destructive interests such as the sudden
and rather convenient friendship of Herod and Pilate in our
daily text. Political interests can bring together people
who otherwise have little in common. I’ve witnessed both
positive and negative friendships and recall a time when I
was pulled into the latter group. It was a learning
experience for me and perhaps will be for others as well.
Returning home to my home
church in Independence, Missouri from Bible College one
summer I was enlisted by a disgruntled member in the
church to come up against the pastor and his wife
concerning a matter. It was a conflict that I had
absolutely no business being involved in, yet my "new
friend" persuaded me of the rightness of his side of the
story. As is often the case I never really heard or
even tried to hear the "other side".
I still recall the surprise and hurt I caused my dedicated pastor and his wife at the time when I essentially joined an "unholy alliance". Here I was a very young believer, a youth in age and quite immature at the time. In my years of ministry I am occasionally the recipient of such treatment and know personally the stinging pain it inflicts and the disunity it brings to the congregation. Prior to Christ’s trial Herod and Pilate were bitter political enemies. Both had ambitious agendas often in conflict with one another. They sought to gain Caesar’s favor as rulers over the troubled Palestinian region in the Roman Empire. But the old phrase "politics makes strange bedfellows" is very evident in their relationship. At Christ’s trial they quickly became “friends”. I can just see them grinning as they shook hands or patted one another on the back in their newly formed "friendship". I believe the careful historian Luke is being sarcastic when he wrote "...Herod and Pilate became friends" as he qualifies their friendship when describing their prior relationship as having been enemies. He describes a very sad type of “friendship” that is common to this day, particularly in politics (and I’m not just speaking of the kind in Washington DC but politics that arise in workplaces, churches, even families). What kind of friends do you have? What do you talk about when you get together? Is it positive and constructive as you share deeply held mutual interests and values? Or is it negative and destructive? Does your conversation build up or does it tear down? I sure don’t want Herod and Pilate to be my models for friendship. What about you? Daily
prayer: Jesus, I
consider the character traits that make
a healthy friendship. Loyalty,
compassion, kindness, honesty, patience,
forgiveness and a listening ear are just
a few of the qualities that are evident
in a good friendship. There are so many
stories in the Gospels where these
qualities are easily seen in the
friendships You had with the disciples
and others. May the foundation of my
friendships be based on godly traits as
I come alongside my friends to
encourage, challenge, inspire, and
stimulate them toward good works in Your
name, Jesus. And when accountability is
called for, help me to lovingly and
prayerfully hold my friend to account
and be accountable to that person as
well. It is in Your name, Jesus, that we
pray. Amen.
Today's
Suggested Music and Supplemental
Resources
"Prayer
For A Friend" Video Casting
Crowns
Note:
This morning we are heading up to
north-central PA for two bike trail
rides. Today we will ride a trail in
the Roaring Creek
Watershed, passing three
mountain lakes. Tomorrow we will ride
the Buffalo Valley Rail
Trail from Lewisburg to
Mifflinburg. Thus we will not post a
message Wednesday!
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