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Tuesday,
November 23,
2021
As the trees lose their leaves we will face the relative starkness of the winter season, but the crimson tree really stands out on this Amish farm near Intercourse, PA
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"Bitterness
Or Thankfulness"
Message
summary: Praise God for the
redeeming, reconciling, regenerative and restorative work
of Christ! Today I urge any of you dealing with bitterness
to nip it at its root. Bitterness is nipped when we
practice forgiveness. Certainly, you've been hurt; some of
you in horrendously painful ways. But Christ continues to
redeem, reconcile, regenerate and restore! Today please
turn to Him. We can be bitter or we can be thankful. Let
us choose thankfulness, "Always giving thanks to God
the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus
Christ" (Ephesians 5:20).
Listen
to this message on your audio player.
"Get rid
of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander,
along with every form of malice" (Ephesians 4:31).
"Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything,
in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ" (Ephesians 5:20).
"See to it that …no bitter root grows up to cause
trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15).
Recently
someone gave us several persimmons, a fruit we rarely come
across. This morning I spoke to about 40 employees at a
company gathering and only two had ever eaten a persimmon.
I have a faint memory of it having a bad taste when I was
young. A friend informed me, "The key is that they must be
very ripe" to avoid the bad taste many describe as bitter
and sour, even creating a puffiness in their mouths.Have you eaten something and said, "It left a bitter taste in my mouth", such as the taste of an under-ripened persimmon. Well, today let us consider an even worse experience; having a bitter attitude in our hearts.
I recall an interaction I had with a man many years ago in the course of our chaplaincy work. I sensed his hard, grizzled face had a story but he was never very talkative. Over months of brief greetings I tried to break through the hard shell. He told me he was a Vietnam vet but little else. One week I gave him a small witness card with this message, "When you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere" (attributed to Andy Rooney) along with our daily Scripture verse.
For some reason, hopefully prompted by the Holy Spirit, I handed him the card and said, "I sense this message is for you". I hadn't planned to say that, it just came out as I greeted him. Although my comment could have offended him he looked at the card and quietly nodded as though in agreement. I continued to see the man for some time and he seemed a bit more open, but our paths stopped crossing and I really don't know the outcome. Prayerfully a seed was planted.
Bitterness
can result from an unrelenting hostility or resentment you
hold on to when you are hurt, offended or even
disappointed by someone or by a tragic event. Sometimes
bitterness can even be directed toward God. The hurt
germinates in our heart and is characterized by an
unforgiving spirit and generally negative, critical
attitude. Bitterness and resentment are sinful attitudes
that are self-destructive. Bitterness will impact your
conscious and unconscious thoughts and actions. As one
writer states, "Bitterness is unforgiveness fermented".
Allowed to fester, it will destroy and kill.But so many people deal with bitterness, even Christians. In fact the daily Scripture portions are addressed to believers. Bitterness indeed "causes trouble and defiles many", primarily to the one harboring it but many others as well. Consider how one bitter family member can affect others.
Chuck
Swindoll writes,"Self-pity….
cuddle and nurse it as an infant and you'll have on your
hands in a brief period of time a beast, a monster, a
raging, coarse brute that will spread the poison of
bitterness and paranoia throughout your system."
I am so thankful for the redeeming, reconciling, regenerative and restorative work of Christ! Today I urge any of you dealing with bitterness to nip it at its root. Bitterness is nipped when we practice forgiveness. Certainly, you've been hurt; some of you in horrendously painful ways. But Christ continues to redeem, reconcile, regenerate and restore! Today please turn to Him. We can be bitter or we can be thankful. Let us choose thankfulness, "Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ" (Ephesians 5:20).
Be encouraged today, (Hebrews 3:13)
Stephen
& Brooksyne Weber
Daily
prayer: Father, help me to realize that
bitterness results from my accommodation to deep
seated anger for unfortunate circumstances usually
beyond my control. When I choose to harbor anger and
an unforgiving spirit I do the greatest harm to
myself rather than my offender. The pain and grief
related to my heartache grows into a poisonous vine
that begins to entwine itself around my heart.
Instead of being thankful for the abundant blessings
that You shower upon me daily and the countless
times You've forgiven me for my sinful behavior, I
focus on the raging storms that leave destruction
and debris along my path. Instead, You want me to
turn away from my bitter rage and choose to find
comfort and peace under Your wings of protection.
Help me to find refuge in You instead of cultivating
my pain. Help me to release my bitterness and
embrace Your balm of healing. In the name of Jesus I
pray. Amen.Today's
Suggested
Music and Supplemental Resources
"His
Mercy Is More" Video Matt Boswell
with Boyce College Choir It is such a
blessing to see these young people singing!
This
morning I ate a very sweet, juicy persimmon!
Finally
today:
Planting
spiritual seed can be discouraging since you
often don't see the harvest on this side. This
is especially true in our form of chaplaincy
where we meet many people with various
backgrounds at their workplace. (As a pastor
you assume people in the church have some
spiritual interest!) This morning I was at JB
Hostetter, our local hardware store, and saw a
man I vaguely recognized. He looked at me with
the same expression. We got to talking and
found out about ten years ago he worked for a
company where we have a role in distributing
Christian literature. He told me he had picked
up a Bible and he shared with me that it had
been meaningful to him. He has not worked
there in many years but has since married, has
three children, is serving the Lord and active
in his church! Of course that was encouraging
to me!
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