Note: These are actual sympathy expressions that family, friends and those who had read about her through our internet ministry shared following my mother's death in November 2005.  They provide good examples of what may be comforting to other families. Feel free to adapt and use them.

These came in through email as well as specific personal expressions on cards following Mom's homegoing. I arranged them essentially as they came in, with no particular order.  Some have offered an uplifting perspective and others tell the story they have concerning the passing of a loved one. When known any relationship with Mom or us is noted. I also typed in the personal expressions from printed cards. I sure wish I could have captured in writing the sentiment from so many of the phone calls I received.


I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother, Brother Stephen. We pray that our God will comfort you as you go through this hard time. Do not be surprised that your mom went through some times of lack of peace. Two months ago my sister's in law grandpa passed away. He was 101 years old and lived his life in complete dedication to the Lord. He was a beloved child of God who was never ashamed of his God even if in Romania it was difficult to be Christian during the communists. He told everybody about his faith in the Lord. When he started to feel sick he couldn't wait to go and be with the Lord. His condition got worse and soon he realized that his departure is getting closer. I never thought a child of God would go through such a struggle, but that was the last one for him. I think the weapon the devil has been using all life long, which is fear, he is using it also in the last hours before going home. That is his last try. But he has no success with God's children. I think no matter how close you walked with God, there will be some fear when you think about stepping in eternity, just because is a place where you've never stepped in before. After my sister in law prayed with her grandpa, God's peace filled his heart and the last battle was won, through Jesus. What a wonderful Savior. And what a blessing for you to know that your mom is resting in the bossom of Jesus. Wow, what a comfort that brings!!!

I just wanted to let you know that there are some other children of God who experienced lack of peace and fear before they surrendered completely in God's arms. Probably we emphasize too much the Christian who can't wait to jump in river Jordan , and has no fear , no doubts. But Jesus was troubled before His death. Why would  we  be different? And probably that will be the last experience and the last prove that God will never forsake us. He keeps us and holds us to the end.  Ooo, such a Savior deserves our best. He remains faithful!!!

I can't jump high enough when I think about to whom we belong. May God comfort you!
 
In Christ,

Simona Aioanei (Romania)


Thank God your mom is resting in the blossom of our Lord Jesus Christ. When one sleeps in the Lord, that's a sleep in eternity. I am sure she is smiling with the angels.

Toyin Ognsanya


I know that you will be overwhelmed with messages in this trying time for your family, but I just wanted to know that I am praying for you. Your messages have helped me through many a hard time and I hope all the messages you are sure to receive will help you now.

Stephen Smith


We are so sorry to learn of the passing of our friend and your mother.  She was a dear, sweet lady - a saint of God.  May the God of all comfort be with you and your family at this time of sorrow.  We certainly will be in prayer for you all.

We send our love,

Carl and Betty (friends of Mom from Independence, MO)


Having lived with you through all the health problems and other events of your family and especially your Mom, I feel like we are good friends. I would like to offer you my sincere condolences with the passing away of your mother. Also I would like to thank you for having us share the hope and the joy in the Lord that you experience, even in this moment of tears and farewell. All of you are such an encouragement to so many!
 
Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers,
 
Ruby Fendri - van Rixel, (Tunisia)


My prayers go out to you and your family at the loss of your Mom and Grandmother. May God Bless you all

Dianna Elliott


I am so sorry that your mom passed away.  Marita told me, then I said it must have been e-mailed to me then.  I know how you must feel, having been so close to your mom. My grandmother passed away a year ago today, she raised all four of her grandchildren, and it wasn't easy for us.  So i know what  you are going through  .  We will lift our hands toward heaven raise we will give the lord the praise.  God's love and prayers.

Yvonne Rowe (Friend from New England)

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This daily encouragement come the morning after my aunt died. (home safely) She had helped raise me after my mother died when i was ten. When she died I was taking care of her and your encouragement was such a blessing!!!  I know God will return the comfort you give a hundredfold!!  And Ester thanks for sharing your memories you are beautiful and I knew your grandmother is so proud of you and she is telling Jesus all about you and He is just smiling and saying "yes I know - and I love her to." 
    

I was so sorry to hear of your Mothers Death, My Prayers will be with you all. Your Friend I n Christ,

Betty Drake


My heartfelt prayers are going out to all of you....Your e mail brought big rain drop tears to my eyes... God Bless You,

Nancy in Ca


My prayers are with you and your family during these days of the loss of your mom.

I know that I would have loved to have seen Jody have more peace in the final minutes of her life, but with the suffering that she had and how she fought the battle of cancer, I am sure that she had peace that I did not see, but the agony of leaving her family behind must have been extremely hard for her.

Your friend,

Darryl Eyler (Friend from work)


I couldn't help but shed tears when I read of your mother.  You can not know how many times I prayed for her and your family. I remember my own mother's passing, and it was indeed a blessing that she could finally be out of her pain as with your mother. We truly serve and honor an awesome God.  He gives us strength and comfort at all times, and you will also receive peace in your hearts. I love your family through your many e-mails and will be keeping you in my prayers.

Ilene (Missouri)


My deepest sympathy to you all at this time of sorrow.  She is in God's care now and oh what better care could we ever ask for her?  No more pain.  Now I pray for your comfort in the days ahead.  God bless you and keep you in His tender care and love for all eternity. 

Love and Prayers 

Arlene (Friend in PA)


Just a note to let you know you have been in our thoughts and prayers.  Please let us know if there is something tangible we can do for you as you prepare for extended family to come.
 
We had a wonderful little visit with Georgia Mae the Sunday we were at Mount Pleasant for Missions Day.  (That was the last time I saw her on this side of heaven.)  The three of us (Georgia Mae, Jim and I) had a little "group hug" when we saw each other down in fellowship hall during the meal and wonderful words of encouragement were spoken between us.
 
Talk to you soon.
 
Much love,

Wendy (and Jim) (Former Pastor and wife at Mount Pleasant)


Sorry to hear of Aunt Georgia Mae's death. As you know, the same feeling happened when Uncle Gene died--that vacancy you have in your heart and mind that we humans have after a loved one dies is so hard to put a word to.  Well, you all certainly took very good care of your mother and you will miss her presence here on earth very much. And that is as it should be.  See you in Missouri soon

Love and with sympathy   

Mazie and Clark (Niece and husband from Oklahoma)

PS: Kari had just asked about Aunt Georgia Mae--just to let you know we did think about her and do think about you all.


We tried to call this evening, but could not get through.  I am sure you have many to contact.  Mike and I just wanted you to know we love you both and weep with you, but also rejoice that Georgia Mae is without pain now and is happy resting in the arms of Jesus.  When we heard this evening I thought of 2 songs... I'll Fly Away and I Can Only Imagine.  I know you must have lots of things on your mind to do, but if there is anything we can do to be of support to you, please do not hesitate to call. I will try to call Thursday morning.  Could I help you with a meal or do anything else for you? 

We are praying for you both that God will give you the strength you need especially in the next several days.

Love,

Mike and Kay (Friends at church in Mount Joy)


Ester just called with the news about your mother.  Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and praying for you in this time of transition.  Ester was saddened that she no longer has Grandparents.   It is obviously a very sad time.  However, I know the struggles you have been having about how to best care for her.   Sometimes God just takes care of things for us.  Bittersweet really describes this time.   She was a wonderful person.  We are so glad we had the privilege of knowing your folks.  I remember the first time we met them.  Your mother loved you so much……..but I think she was a little concerned about the wellbeing of her son, in that lonesome town in PA………  But that is what Mom’s are supposed to do. 

God Bless you Brother……….  I may try to call, but I realize you will be very busy for the next few days and will be spending a lot of time on the phone.  Just know that our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you.

We love you,

Mike, Kathy and Tina (Friends from our church in northern PA, now living in North Carolina)


Blessings on your family for caring for *mama* all the way to her eternal resting place. What kindness you have shown us all. In a world where the elderly are sometimes forgotten, yours is a story of truth and beauty. I am keeping you all close in prayer.

Meg Turk


I am sorry for your loss.  May God Bless you and your family during this time of grieving.

Kerri


Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.  Thank you for sharing so much of your Mom with us.  We are sad to hear of her passing but rejoice that she has received her eternal reward.

Lou & Kristyn Brockett, Wallingford, CT


My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family as you shared your mother's journey back to be with God. May He now give you all the strength you need at this difficult time. God Bless You and be with you!

Susan Behe


You don't know me, but you are such a blessing in my life. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much it hurts, I also know it is such a blessing to know they are far better off then we are. Again, I'm sorry. God bless you and yours. I am praying for your comfort and peace.   

Shelia Loeffelbein  Fairmont, WV


My deepest sympathy to you and your family as you go through this difficult time.  May the God of comfort give you peace as you face the upcoming holidays for the first time without your mother and grandmother.  I always enjoyed when you shared stories about your mother and I know you will miss her greatly.

Pat Spore


Take comfort in God's love during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers and those of my family will be with you.
 
Bob Glista


My dear brother and sister in Christ: What encouragement you continue to bring to us in spite of the situation with your Mom. "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord." How awesome is that. Yet, part of us doesn't want to let go even though we know the end from the beginning. Our heavenly father is always in control and we can take great encouragement from that. Please know that we asking God to keep you surrounded by his angels until He returns for us.

Nick Nichols


I always love getting your emails in the morning as I am drinking my coffee in the few minutes I have before getting my 6 year old daughter ready for school. They are an absolute encouragement to me. Thank you so much for your ministry.

I lost my beloved Granna in 2001 and know the loss of a loved one can hurt so much, but, be encouraged and know that she is in a better place, she is happy and without pain. Granna and I had/have a favorite scripture Jeremiah 29:11. I hope that this scripture will be an encouragement for you and your family. 

You are such a blessing to me.

Gretta Armitage, Kansas City, KS


I am deeply sorry for your Mom's passing, as I know your heart is sad. I have tears in my eyes, and I didn't even know her. God bless you during this time and know that she is sitting at the feet of our beloved Lord right now basking in His glory and divine love. Pain for her is no more. What a blessing to know that she is with Jesus. My prayer for you and your family is that God gives you His peace that passes all understanding. Thanks for always being an encouragement to so many.

In Christ,

Elaine Law


My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have been a blessing to so many. I look forward to hearing you've got mail and find it is the daily encouragement. As you celebrate your Mom's homecoming I pray you will be comforter knowing you will be with her again. God bless you and your family.

Sharon Kemp


Hello dear friends, (no need to respond), I just wanted to let you know that I will be lifting you & yours up to the Lord.  I am sorry to hear of your loss, but am blessed to know of your mother's love for Jesus.  I lost my mother when she was 63 & I remember it seemed to me to that it was just too young for her to go, but our times are in His hands and, as we know, she is far better off there in His presence.  Anyway, just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you & lifting you up to our Lord.

Laurie


Our heart felt sympathies to you all on the loss of your mother.  I know how much you'll miss her, but I also know that the Lord gives us a peace that we just can't understand.  It's almost as though He holds us in His arms and helps us heal right away.  I can't explain it, but I know He did it for me and know He is doing it for you too.  Our love to you all.
 
Merle and Alice Peabody (Friends from our church in New England)


I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing but we know the pain is gone. We know we cannot wish them back to this old world. We are sorry for ourselves. Both my parents are also gone. The final part hits so hard. You want to ask something and you then realize the finality. God bless and strengthen as you walk thru this time, each one.

Elsie


I am so sorry to hear about your mom. She is now with the Lord and she is no longer suffering. God Bless and take care.

The Szymanskis (a former foster child who knew Mom as Grandma)

Your ministry has been a blessing to me of encouragement. I feel that I have known you and your family for years. My prayers and thoughts are with you and yours in this time of lose but we know that your princess has met her prince. Thank you Jesus

Deb


So many times I have wanted to thank you for the words of encouragement, but have failed to e-mail you.  I thank God that he gives us the words and the people we need just at the right time. Thank you both so much, you will never realize how many lives that you touch daily.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  I along with so many others feel like you are apart of the family and felt a bit of sorrow, yet praise today.  God bless,

Marsha Anderson Van Buren, AR


My thoughts and prayers will be with you over the next few days.  What a great assurance you gave everyone today!

Thanks and God bless,

Matt


Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your Mother. May God bless you with the comfort in knowing so many are prayer for you and your family.

Marlene


Please know I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers at the loss of your mom. I pray that the days ahead will go as well as possible. May we all be thankful for the eternal hope we have in Jesus Christ our Lord.

In sympathy,

Rhonda Nickel


We are sorry to hear of your loss, yet rejoice knowing where your mother is now. Pastor, I remember while growing up that when your parents would come to visit, we would all get so excited. Your parents always treated us as if we were their grandchildren and they had so much love to share with us. I remember when your mother came out to California for our wedding and she remembered me well and was excited for us. You have truly been blessed with wonderful parents. Thank you for sharing their lives with others like me:).

In Christ,

Doug, Anna, Annalisa, & Alyssa (A young man now a missionary who grew up in our church in northern PA.


You should know that you are in my prayers since I learned of your mother's death. It sure brings back memories of my Dad going to be with the Lord just two years ago!  May God' Spirit give you grace, may His hope fill your heart, and may you experience His peace in the coming days.

Blessings,

Nelson Longenecker, Four Seasons Produce, Inc. (Friend from work)


You will be hearing from me again but I just wanted to send this quick note to express my deepest condolences on the passing of your Mom. Please know that my family and I are especially remembering you in our prayers during this time of bereavement.

God bless,

Lou Guiliano (Friend from New Jersey)


My dear friends, I'm saddened to hear of your dear Mother's passing, we have been praying for her and you in our prayer group, which meets on Monday evenings. We know where she is, and will join her very soon. May the God of all comfort assure you of His immediate presence always. I know Ester is grieving, and will especially remember her in prayer, Underneath are the everlasting arms.

Love to all,

Joyce (Friend from church in New England)


I am sorry to hear about your mother but glad for her.  What a great peace we can have when we know that our loved one is now with the Lord!  Nothing on this side can compare with that.  We will be praying for you and your family.

Love,
 
Greg and Linda (Friends from church in northern PA)


I am so sorry about Georgia's passing,  I know that she  Loved  the  Lord and  lived  for  him.  I'm sure she will be greatly missed by all. I remember I would go pick her up and we would go shopping. I enjoyed her company. Also I remember her banana nut bread, it tasted  so good  with  a  cup  of  coffee. I pray that the good Lord will give you all a peace that can only come from him.

God Bless,

Loretha Joe (Friend of Mom's from Missouri)


Your encouragement today was incredibly uplifting. We will miss the encouraging cards we would receive from time to time from you mom. She had a knack of just dropping a note and lifting our day many times when we needed it most. When Ester called last night Andrea & I prayed for the entire family. Let me know if there is anything I can be of assistance with. Andrea the girls & I love all of you.

Your brother in Christ,

Steve Higgins (Friend in New England)


I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your Mother's passing. May God bless her and bless you always.

Jose Rivera


We love you guys.  You are much in our prayers just now.

Kevin & Karen Kohler (Friends in Maryland)


What a precious person Georgia Mae Weber is!  We will always remember her thoughtfulness, kindness and life. Thank you for always staying in touch.  In that way, you are so much like her, Stephen.  We are so thankful for both your Mother and Dad's lives.  We miss them both.

John and I were just fortunate to hear a seasoned minister talk about someone asking him to pray for a couple who had lost their son.  The mother had trouble standing and looked like she would collapse at any moment, but every time he started to pray for them concerning this difficult situation, he felt something inside that stopped him.  Finally, as uncomfortable as the moment was, he asked, "How long has your son been gone?"  The father answered, "Since September."  The old minister asked, "Since September?"  "Yes," answered the father, "Since he went to college."  The minister then said, "You mean to tell me that he didn't die?"  "No, but we have been suffering like you can't believe since."  He said he wanted to slap them (so to speak).  The Lord taught him through that though that death is like that, we move to a different place. We miss the ones that have moved to Heaven, but that's what they have done, they have moved and for the Believer, WOW what a promise! Georgia Mae is in a real place called Heaven and we will all see her so very soon.  The Apostle Paul exhorted us to comfort one another with these words.

As Christians it is a strength to realize that our loved ones have passed into the realm where God has already been for eternities. Now our loved ones know just as they have been fully known by Him and why it was so wonderfully merciful that Jesus was so willing to give Himself for us so that we might receive this eternal hope!

Certainly at this time there must be alotted time to grieve our loss and yet celebrate the victory that what we compelled to feel is as an ending is really in reality a brand new glorious beginning.  The awesome joy to keep in our heart is that soon there will be a glorious reunion!

Love,

Virginia & John (Grayum) Schulte (longtime friends of Mom living in Arkansas)


What a joy it is to know that our loved ones went to be with the lord!! What a blessing must be to finally see "him" face to face in all his glory!! I also know, that there is the human side of all of us that wants to hold on to those we love, that is why it is my prayer that you find rest and comfort in god's love and may you experience his peace that surpasses all understanding.
Love,

Your sister in Christ,

Mercy


It is with great sadness that I read about the passing of your mother.  Even thought I do not know any of you personally, I feel a connection to your family as I read about you daily.  What a great example of faith you are that you can find the words to share with all of us when I am sure you are dealing with your own personal pain.  How great that your mom seemed to find peace in perhaps knowing that she would soon be in God's care.  Your family will remain in my prayers especially over the next few days as you deal with services and all the other finalities.

In Him,

Maureen Singleton


We are very saddened to hear this news. You will be in our prayers during this time. Please let us know if we can do anything else. We love you all.

Silvia family (friend from New England)


I was sorry to read about your mother.  She is in a wonderful place with no pain. I'm praying for you all. God Bless You.

Carol


I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. My Mom was ninety when she died and even so I miss telling her things. I am so glad that we believe that they both went home to be with our Lord.I love to read your encouragement everyday it really helps.  

Love,

Sandra Mahoney, First Baptist Church of Marlboro


As you rejoice that your mother is now with the Lord, I pray He will bring comfort to you for the ache in your hearts.

In His Love,

Mary Ginder (friend from work)


My condolences on the graduation of your mother. We can be comforted in "knowing" the word at this time.God in his grace was absolutely "awesome" to watch his hand in the last months,in your life. Thank You so much for sharing your family with your "subscribers". I know God has used your ministry and heartfelt comments and thoughts, during your mothers, illness. You are so blessed to have a wife like B. God bless her. God bless you my friend in Christ. May he continue to use you and your family and ministry to "encourage" all of your subscribers. I am blessed daily. Thanks!! Rejoice!! May the Holy Spirit comfort you. May Jesus embrace you! grace n peace

John Lynch


How wonderful for you and your wife and daughter to have had such a model of Christ's unconditional love in your life for so long. Praise God for His infinite grace, and the strength He will give your family to deal with the overwhelming feeling of "loss" you must be experiencing today.

Steve & Betsy Nickless


Losing a loved on one is very difficult and I know losing our parents is exceptionally difficult. My dad went home to be with Jesus in Dec. 2, 1982 and my mom in Sept 18, 1989. When mom died I realized I was an orphan, but Jesus assured me that our Heavenly Father was still there for me. On Feb 19, 2005 my youngest sibling went home to be with the Lord. As I asked the Lord, "why" again my answer was given. My brother was more concerned about those left behind than himself...he knew that he was going home to be with Jesus.

As you face the coming days allow the Holy Spirit to minister to your hearts. Also it is very important to allow yourselves time to grieve. Even though we know our loved ones are with God we miss them and all the times we shared together. I pray the Lord's comfort, peace and goodness to all of you. May his blessed face be before your eyes and his grace everlasting toward you. Our prayers go out to you.

In Christ's love,

Del


I am sorry to hear of your mothers passing. Knowing your family, you can take great joy in knowing she is HOME...to the BEST HOME IMAGINABLE.

Having lost my own mother, it is never easy, and she will be missed greatly. The Lord is good in all things and at all times and He will see you through.

God bless you, Brooksyne and Ester. And thank you for your ministry, my dear brother!

Wanting you to know that you have been in our prayers throughout the years and that during this time of loss you are yet again being lifted up. Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your mother and grandmother. Please know that others (even those you cannot put a face to) care immensely for you. GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU!

The Davis Family Newport, VT


Please accept my sincerest sympathy in the loss of your mother.  I receive your Daily Encouragement every day and feel like I know you.

Barbara Roth


We were so sorry to hear about your Mom passing away last night.  It is a sad and also a good time to know she is not in any more pain and with the Lord.  I can still see her smiling face at the last reunion together.  Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Love,

Richard & Pat (Nephew and wife in Florida)


May the Lord bless and comfort you with many wonderful memories during this difficult time of loss.  Just wanted you to know I so enjoy and look forward to my Daily Encouragement.  I know your Mother was proud that you are involved in doing God's work.  God Bless you today.  

Sherry McClanahan


I am so sorry for your loss.  I'm not sorry that your mother is no longer suffering, or that she's with the Lord and her husband, but I know your family will feel a huge void, probably for a very long time.  I sat here and cried at my desk when I read your message, as I am now.

I've always felt so connected in many ways to your family and have not always had time to respond to your daily encouragements.  I don't have time right now either to mention all the "connections", but one has been that my mother has been in a nursing home in Farmington, IL for the past 10 years.  She was diagnoses with Alzheimer's, but I suspect it is severe dementia.  She doesn't know very many people, but for a split second, if then, but she has remained sweet and content.  Last week, on Nov. 10, she turned 90.  I couldn't be with her, as we live in MS, and I felt a great deal of guilt about that.  Two of my high school girlfriends went to visit in my place.  I've expected to hear any time, for the last couple of years, that Mom would go to be with the Lord, but her heart is fairly strong and it is not her time.  As far as I know, she is not suffering though, so it's OK.

A year ago, on Nov. 15, was when my husband had the blood clot on his brain and we went through 4 brain surgeries and 2 months of hospitalization.  I can happily report that he is back at work at MSU and writing again and speaking as a Gideon and last weekend we went to Vicksburg where he spoke on the Civil War at a seminar.  I'm sure you don't remember, but 3 days after Mike had his first surgery, my 32 year old mentally retarded daughter fell and broke her ankle and had to have orthopedic surgery and was in the same hospital as Mike, for three weeks (actually, that worked well for me).  It's been a year of struggle and patience building and growth and frustration, but I want you to know that I've read your daily encouragements and remember your family often in prayer. You feel like part of my family.  I met one of the young women who works for the National Park Service this past weekend and she's originally from Lancaster, PA.  I thought of you when she told me.

Just know that the three of you are loved and very much covered in prayer.

Your sister in Him,

Jan Ballard


My deepest condolences on the passing of your mother and grandmother. I pray for comfort in this painful time. Thank you for your daily blessing in my life. How many more people will be joining your mother in heaven because of your daily encouragement.

God bless,

Ginger Britton


Thank you for letting Charlie and I know of your mother's death Steve. To this day I think of both my parents as they are both now in Heaven with the Lord. Like your parents, they attempted to bring me up well along with me going to Perkins School for the Blind. Your mother must have been a fantastic person according to what I've read about her from you in the Daily Encouragements. I know that God will take care of her and Jesus will open His arms to her in a rich welcoming in. Hugs to all of you:

Rosie and Charlie Goumas (friends from Boston, both blind)


Please know I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers at the loss of your mom. I pray that the days ahead will go as well as possible. May we all be thankful for the eternal hope we have in Jesus Christ our Lord.

In sympathy,

Rhonda Nickel


How bittersweet today must be for your family -- bitter because you miss your dear mother and grandmother and yet sweet because you know she is with Jesus. Your message today was so very meaningful as it showed how Christians can have hope and even joy in sad circumstances. God bless you -- especially in the next days and weeks as you adjust to her being absent from the body but present with the Lord.

Dianne Edmondson


Please give my condolences to your family and Genelle a big hug from all of us.  The mighty Lord truly works in mysterious ways.  I have a problem receiving your emails and read them when they do come through.  I can only think He had something to do with this one making its way. We would like to know about the funeral arrangements, memorials etc. Please ask Genelle to give me a call, to see if she needs us to do anything or come accompany her.  Tell her we said a prayer for all of you and your mom.  Sandra and Sandrita also.

Arlene Vilar (friend of Genelle's in Miami Florida)


I am very sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She is now with the Lord and suffering no more.  Thank you for sharing that wonderful hymn regarding seeing Jesus at death.  May God Bless and keep all of your family at this time.

Maureen McInerney


I want you all to know that I am praying for you during this time.  I know the emptiness you are left with after loosing a parent, especially both parents.  I lost both of mine in the early 90's.  As you have stated, she's home now and thank God for that blessed hope we have through Jesus Christ that we will be reunited with them one day... I can hardly wait!!

Although I have not met you all in person I do feel a special bond and love for you guys since I've been receiving your devotional for many years.  Stay in His service and even if we never meet in this old world I know we will in Heaven.

In Christ,

Kenny Tierno, Easley, SC


I am SO sorry for the loss of your dear Mother. You are so much a part of my daily life and I know so much about you from the email every day that I feel as though I have lost a family member. I am glad that your dear Mom's suffering is over, and I grieve with you at her loss.I've lost both my parents also, and it's a strange feeling to be without them. I know that God will comfort you in the coming days,. Remember that He gives us tears to soothe our broken hearts, God keep you next to His heart. I will be praying for your needs.

Pat Coakley


Please accept my heartfelt condolences regarding your Mum.  I've been following your news about her over the last few months, and have been concerned over her worsening condition.  Though this news is clearly very sad, there is of course a more positive side in that now she is fully restored and healed.
 
Your Encouragement today was absolutely wonderful, and a pure testimony of your faith, and that of your Mum.  Praise God that she knew her Lord, and that He was certainly there awaiting her arrival home!
 
I've prayed for you, Brooksyne, and Ester.  Death is such a sudden and final end to an earthly relationship, but we know we've all got an eternity together, and an eternity with God and Jesus!  What a fantastic knowledge to know that God has a plan for us, not only in this life, but in ALL the time to come!!  This knowledge gives us strength to face all circumstances, and will certainly comfort you all at this sad time.  It's true to realize that we're only here for a short blip..  just preparing for the eternal life ahead.
 
God's blessings to you all. 
 
Kind regards,

Steve (Friend in England)


I would like to express my condolences for the loss of your Mom. It is always difficult for the family who are left behind, but we will see them one day in heaven with the Lord. That will be a joyful time!

God bless!

Amy Grace Tielu


So sorry to read about your Mother's departure from  this planet, but you know, she is shouting and praising God and walking hand in had with her husband today. It is so hard to say goodbye, but  it is not a permanent goodbye, as soon there is going to be the biggest family reunion ever, a great Home coming and there will be no more tears and no more goodbyes. I am looking forward to seeing  and being with my Mom and Dad again, also. My prayers are with you for your sadness, but thanking God for taking away the pain and giving your Mom a brand new body, where pain can never touch it again. We have the brightness future to look forward too, we are really Blessed. May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family during this time of sadness and give you all His love and companionship.

God Bless,

Delores


I know that this one of many statements of sympathy that you are getting, which are all I hope encouraging to you in the moments of your loss.  5 years ago this coming Easter, I lost my mom and was privileged to have been there with her during her last hours.  She went home to be with God and left behind the assurance that we would see each other again.  I am happy for you that you also had a mother of faith and are aware of the fact that she has entered her new life.  She has been welcomed to heaven in the loving, graceful arms of our God of hope.  My prayer for you, Esther and Brooksyne is that our God of comfort and grace will envelope all of you in the warmth of His Holy Spirit and therein bring healing to your sense of pain in the loss of a very special person in your life (however temporary that loss may be - and therein is our continuing hope). 

God's peace, grace and blessing of memories be with you.

Deo Volente

Kenneth Wish (friend from Maine)


I just read your note about your mom passing away yesterday.  I know that you all are very sad for her, but just remember that it cannot be very long before we see our loved ones again.  What a happy time that will be; no one will have any pain any longer and everything will be perfect.  I heard a little verse on our radio station (KHCB) a few days ago that I have on my screensaver: The present is bearable when you are confident that the future is glorious.  I love that!  God bless you all and give you peace and comfort.

In Christ's love,

Pat Chaffin, Bryan, TX


I'm sorry I was so fuzzy when you called last night, Steve.  Our power had gone on and off several times and I had been in bed reading then fell asleep.  I am so glad you called and I did notify Jim and Jane.
 
I will get an appropriate note off to all of you when I have a chance, but until then know that you are all certainly in our thoughts and prayers. I will treasure as I'm sure you will the memories of Georgia Mae.  Steve, you and Brooksyne and Pat and LaVerne certainly have earned a special place in heaven for all that you did for her these last few years.  I know it has not been easy - I could not have done what all of you have done. I hope you can take some comfort knowing that she does not suffer any longer and is at peace.  As trite as it may sound it really will be easier and in some ways a blessing for you, even though you will miss her so very much.
 
Our Love and His Blessings,

Nancy (Niece from Michigan)


My mom went home to be with the Lord in 1983 and I still miss her but will see her again Amen. You will too. I can hardly wait.

Stephen Ecsedy (Friend from church in northern PA)


Just want to let you know there are thousands who are sharing your grief with you today.  You come into our homes every day with such hope and encouragement and blessing - we think of you as family.  May it lighten the grief just a little to think that at this very moment your mom is singing praises to the King with Fanny Crosby and all the saints who have gone before.  Blessings to you dear friends!

The Williams family, Virginia Beach, VA


I am sorry to read about your loss. I pray that tonight God will give you peace and comfort you in this loss.

Blessings to you.

Kim, Virginia


I learned of Georgia Mae's passing last night from my parents.  I was deeply saddened to hear the news and to think that those who contributed so much to our Family -- Uncle Gentry, Aunt Ruth, Aunt Tempie, Hazel and now Georgia Mae -- are passing on.

My thoughts are with you and your immediate family.

Very truly yours,

John (a great nephew living in England)


I am very sorry for your loss but I also know that she will find great comfort with the Lord. I wish you peace as you and your family goes through this trying transition period.  Thank you for sharing your personal life and the impacts of daily living on our spiritual thoughts.  It has made me think of things that I would otherwise have either ignored or put off.  This is a very positive thing indeed.  Again, my best to you and the family.

God bless,

Steve Parker (Friend from work)


I've been praying for you as you adjust to life without mother and friend.  As you know, it's only about a week since my father went Home.  We don't grieve for them! They're healed and happy!  What a blessed hope to know we'll soon be together forever.  Meanwhile, we recall and celebrate the good memories and honor the Lord for His promises and faithfulness, and gather strength from the comfort of His presence.

Blessings to you as you deal with all the business and emotions of these next few weeks.  I'll watch the paper for time of any public services.

Keep looking UP,

Don Kreider (Friend from work)


God bless both of you for your love and care of your mother.  I know what it means to care for an ill parent in the home.  My thoughts and prayers are with you both and I am sure God will put His loving arms around you at this trying time. Sincerely, Rachel

Rachel Greene (Friend from our church in New England)


I know you will receive many emails, but I would like to add mine to the list. I was sadden to hear of your loss. Terry has lost both parents and I have lost a father and stepfather, so we have an idea what you will go through now and in the near future. However, be glad that you know where she is. We wish we had the same assurances about our parents.

You are in our prayers.

Melodie and Terry Shumaker


You all have such a wonderful talent of communication with words not to mention your caring and love. I appreciate so much your note and the Daily Encouragement today.  Georgia Mae was a special aunt and never failed to say that she "loved her nieces" -- and I knew that she meant it.  So many memories and so thankful that she enjoyed the family reunion this year. Now she is pain free  -- at home with our Lord  -- and still loving her family.

Blessings and love to you all.

Jeannine (Niece from Oklahoma)


I said a prayer for you and your family this morning. I know God will bless you all and help you thru this "valley." I know you were a joy and blessing to your mom and I also know from experience, how difficult these last few months have been. Your mom will never be gone as long as she lives in your memories. She is with Jesus now and, on the positive side - that must bring you all extreme peace and acceptance of your loss.

Linda Hickman


My heart is broken for all of you. Isn't it such a comfort to know that all her illness is gone, and she's resting comfortably, safe in the loving arms of the one who created us all.  God bless you.

Karyl Britt


Remember, your dear mother is now with our Lord, Jesus, Absent from the body, present with the Lord. You will see her again and live forever with Jesus!

M.D.

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I can really understand your pain, I just recently lost a brother. He was on heroin and was trying to get clean so he started the meth program but he was also a heavy drinker. You are not supposed to drink on methadone and the medical examiner thinks it was just a fatal heart attack. My brother was just starting to do well in his life, he got a big promotion on his job, he had been estranged from my parents and his 16 yr old daughter. I got the chance to witness to him last yr, he told me god could not possibly love someone like him and I told him that god loved him so very much and so did his family, I talked to him about the lord every chance I got and then we lost touch. I loved my brother so much and wish I could have done or said more to him but I am so glad for the opportunities that presented themselves where I did witness and minister to his hurting heart. My parents never got or took the opportunity and it is so hard to see them struggle with all there emotions. I am so sorry about your loss, it is never easy but knowing that she is with our brother Jesus should give you comfort, and god is with you now in your time of grieving. Isaiah 57 gave me great comfort. 1st chapter, I mean verse. God bless you and your family.

Susan Gunzel


Your message yesterday encouraged me (even though I sympathize with you about your mother) but today the tears won't stop as I read the message for today.  You see, on Dec. 1, 2004 we had two granddaughters (ages 12 and 10) taken home to be with the Lord from an automobile accident.  I really believe they are at home in Heaven but I miss them so much!  We would see them sometimes twice a week since they lived just 6 miles from us and I can still "see" them in my house and "hear" their voices saying something cute or funny.  I don't want to "grieve as those who have no hope" but some days I just can't stop crying.  I took medication for the first few months after the wreck and when I stopped taking it, the grieving began.  (At the time, our daughter was still in ICU recovering from her injuries and I needed to be there for her.)  I have to MAKE myself think of the good that has come from this:  my sister (who was raised in church but stopped going as soon as she left home to get married) has recently come to salvation and been baptized (Praise the Lord!), and my husband (who hasn't gone to church since he was a small boy) has been attending church with me and even took his Bible out of the box that he got it in 1992!  Our daughter is a walking miracle because she has completely recovered from her brain injury except for some paralysis of the right side of her face.  Thank you for your daily messages of encouragement!  Please pray for our family.  Thank you.

Charlene


I would like to convey my sincere sympathy as you go through this time of loss.  As unusual as it may sound, I was thinking of you all last night and I thought it is so hard to deal with the death of a loved one in the natural but it is such a blessing in the spirit.  I prayed and said, "Lord let the spirit be in control.  Comfort them as only You can."

I lost my father in August to cancer.  He had just been checked into a personal care home because his wife could no longer care for him at home.  He was there four days before he passed away.  I was not as close to my father as I would have liked to be but we always expressed our love whenever we talked and I called him more and more as he became ill.  He lived in Orlando.  When I got the phone call about five o'clock am on August 30, 2005,  I already knew why the phone was ringing and I immediately started to pray.  I cried a little but mostly just thought about how much I didn't know about him and wish I could ask.  The Lord consoled me as he will you and your family and I am certain he and your mother are with Jesus and all the other saints clothed in white raiment worshiping the Lamb. 

At his funeral,  the pastor said blessed are the dead which die in the Lord (Revelation 14:13).  Death is a blessing to the saints of God. Know that you have someone praying for you in Americus, GA and I will meet you one day even if it's in heaven and you and your mother and me and my father can introduce ourselves :).

Be encouraged!!!!!!!!

Renee Fedrick


I'm so sorry, Stephen.  I know the past several weeks, and maybe longer, have been a difficult time for you.  I'm so glad that you have your faith and support of friends and family to help you deal with it. I spoke to Nancy, Jim, Aunt Fran, and Dub yesterday.  I'd heard that the service might be in a couple of weeks; I know Aunt Fran said that it might be easier if the service were in warmer weather and she can't leave Jim at this time.  Aren't you glad that you 4 were able to be your mother at the reunion last summer?  She seemed so much more alert then than even the previous summer.  I know you'll keep us posted as plans are made.

In sympathy-

Jane and Tom (Niece and husband from Colorado)


I was saddened to hear of your mom's passing.  It brought back many emotions as I too have gone through the loss of my mom (2001) and my dad (2003), and I am only 30!  So to say the least it has been a tough time losing them both, and I've asked the question "why?" many times.  My mom's passing happened so fast that it really didn't hit me until several months down the road.  We learned that she had cancer on a Saturday morning, and the following Saturday evening she died.  One week!  Not much time to get used to not having a mom on this side of eternity anymore, especially when she was always so full of life and energy.  My dad we were more prepared for, although no-one is ever fully prepared for it, but he had heart disease, so we knew that his time was short, the doctors could do nothing more for him.

I found this poem that I had the pastor read on the first mother's day without her.  It truly is a beautiful poem and it makes you wonder what really happens in Heaven.  I hope it comforts you in some way.  Please know that people are holding you up in prayer during this difficult time. 

May God Comfort You!

Blessings,

Christine Wheeler


We live in Independence, Missouri.  You probably don't remember us.  We attended Central Assembly of God and new your family.  I helped you dad many time fix the a/c units on the church.  I think you have even spoke there several times.  One funny comment you made was about the good roads in Mo.  I told you if you thought the roads were good here you must really have some bad roads there.  Both of my parents passed away in the 80's.  I had to try to witness to my dad on his deathbed.  I think I was able to get through to him.  After he died my mom gave her heart to the Lord and started going back to church.  She only lived two years, but I think they were happy years.  It is hard to take care of our parents.  The hardest thing I ever did in my life was to leave my mom in a rest home.  As I drove away I asked the Lord to help us both.  She only lived two days after that.  I know you feel like you should have done more.  It will be a great reunion in heaven.  I think God will let us have some time together.  I always think of the pain free life that those who are gone are enjoying.  I know you know this but Paul said it best, "for to me to live is Christ, and to die is great gain."  Your folks and mine have gained greatly.

Chuck Smith (Friend from Missouri)


Dear Friends in the Lord, We will be praying for you-that the Lord will comfort you. I'm thankful she did not have to go to a nursing home-here-but her Home in heaven. What joy, peace & good health - so many relatives & friends to greet her. May the Lord bless you for your loving care all those years. Thanks for all your great devotionals.

Harold & Marian Moore


Sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. She is in a far better place. I have gone through losing my parents I know your loss especially because I cared for my father. May God comfort you. God Bless you all.

Betty Girimonte

 
God bless you and your family during this time of sadness!  Look up, as Georgia Mae, is out of her suffering in her earthly temple and present with her Lord and I am sure she is reunited with Gene in a heavenly place.
 
Love,

Betty (Friend of Mom's from the KC area)

May you continue to be comforted by God's loving hand.
 
Your sister in Christ,

JoAnna R. Gardner (friend from our church in Mount Joy)


I wanted to tell you how sorry I am to hear about your mother yet I also am so grateful she is "home." I understand how hard it is to lose a loved one and yet the joy of knowing you will see them again and because we become as He is, we will know the width, depth, height and length of His love for us. To think they now know this and what fullness of Glory they now bask in and what we have yet to experience. I pray that all of you will be comforted mightily during this time of sorrow and that you will have joy overflowing.

Love,
Lenny, Beth, Anne, Kelly, Elizabeth (Friends from our church in northern PA)


I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your mother, but like you said she is with the Lord. Danny and I are praying for your family. We love you all.
 
God Bless You and your family!

Love,

Rachel and Danny Bettencourt, also Andrew, Madison, and Jacob.  (Young lady from our church in New England)


May God comfort you in the passing of Stephen's mother.  Your messages are always encouraging and a blessing.  Especially at this time, may the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ bless you back with comfort, strength and grace. He is faithful.

With love in Christ,

Judy Fischetti


We are so sorry to hear about your Mom,  you have our deepest sympathies.  It is a joy to know that she loved the Lord and to know that she is in heaven now.  Although it was tough years  at the end it was very encouraging to me to see the love your family showed your Mom.  The times we spent around her were great,  what I remember most about her was her genuine love and interest for people and that she was an energy  giver.  I am sure you will miss her very much.      Love

The Mosebargers (Friends from our church in northern PA)


Your mother knows that you and Brooksyne did your best for her best. Most mothers have a hard time adjusting to being cared for by sons and daughters in law. They do not want to be a burden.  We all know that they are not. Our parents generation has a hard time expressing their emotions, some see it as a sign of weakness or dependence.  I am sure that your mother appreciated all you did. She is now in a better place with your father and pain free adoring God.

May God Bless,

Maureen McInerney


I am sorry for your loss and will be praying for your comfort and healing. I will pray that regrets are lessened and good memories take their place. I pray God comforts your family with loving arms and that you can hear the reassuring whispers of his spirit.

I lost my husband when I was 23 years old, we had three small children. The emotional pain was so great that I hurt physically. In spite of this I have such sweet, sweet memories of that time. I felt God close to me comforting me through it all. He protected my children and provided financial blessing that made it possible for us to survive. I felt God so close to me, I really truly understood the meaning of Him being the husband to the widow, he truly was my husband at that time.

I pray you and your family receives the same closeness and blessings I received in my time of loss, I pray God reveals his tender loving heart to you.

God bless you,

Robin


You will never know the impact the daily encouragements that have made me more disciplined in prayer, hope and friendship.  How blessed we are to have a wonderful person to teach us the Word of God.  Your mom knew she loved you.  She was the cutest(most cuddly) little mom you could ever love....

Blessing of love, health and prayers during this difficult/painful period.

Nyla (Connecticut)

P.S.  My husband is inches from being saved...praise God!!!


My thoughts and prayers go out to you, as I praise God for the rich welcome that your Mom received when she went to be with the Lord on Wednesday night.  I thank God for His wonderful comfort, peace and assurance.  Thank you so much for sharing the words to Fanny Crosby's hymn.  I went to the hymn site that I have had in "my favorites" since Stephen shared it in a devotion years ago, and sang along as tears of thankfulness for God's precious promises streamed down my face.

http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/m/y/mysavior.htm
My Savior First of All

While I was there - I also read the words to this another hymn, that has been read at the funerals of 2 generations in my family, and I want to be read at mine:
Crossing the Bar
Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar
When I put out to sea.

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam.
When that which drew from the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell
When I embark.

For, though from out our bourne of time and place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope* to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crossed the bar.

* I have asked this word to be changed to "long" - because I know that I will see my Saviour's face, when I have crossed the bar.


May you be comforted in this time of mixed sorrow and joy.

Love,

Jean Monroe


Some of us in Miami would like to pay our respects to Genelle and you by sending flowers along with our prayers for the memorial.  When I spoke to Genelle last night she mentioned a donation to world vision in her mom's name.  Cesar was going to call me with information regarding flowers for the memorial but we are worried that since Carolina and he won't arrive till Sat there might be time. If you felt it would be appropriate could you let me know the funeral home making the arrangements for the cremation and memorial. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Arlene Vilar (Friend of Genelle's in Miami FL)